There are five major emotional languages according to Gary Chapman. Every man responds primarily to one. That one is at the core for them. 

There are those who respond to words of affirmation, this class wants to be encouraged and appreciated. 

Another thrives on quality time. They just want your undivided attention. They bond with you by spending time doing things together. They will rather spend time talking  and being with you than any other thing. 

Another spells love as g.i.f.t.  They feel loved when you give them no matter how small it is to you. 

To them it’s the thoughtfulness behind the gift that matters. The gift doesn’t even have to be expensive either. 

The best way to tell another of your love is through an act of service. Those little little seemingly unimportant acts to you spark love in them. It’s because you love them, you’re rendering those services. 

Lastly, we have those who respond to touch, they are always hugging, kissing, jumping into your lap, etc. They just want to have body contact. Touch them deliberately they would be in cloud 9. 

Where does your child belong in the list? N:B You can read more on the love language of children by Gary Chapman.